Where are you located?
My private apartment is beautifully decorated with fresh scents, candles, flowers, full bath and shower, and is conveniently located in central North Vancouver.
What’s your availability?
I am usually available 10am-7pm, with advanced notice. Earlier and same day appointments are sometimes possible. Advanced notice is advised for all appointments, since my schedule fills up quickly. Don’t be surprised if you call and I’m booked for the next couple days! But you’re welcome to try…
What happens during a session?
Learning something new is always a little daunting, let alone when it involves sexuality, so I believe it is really important to ensure my clients feel relaxed, safe and comfortable. On first arriving at the studio we will sit and have a chat about what you want to learn and experience during the session, as well as cover any questions or concerns. Then you will get changed into a sarong (men), which is provided, or underpants/bra and sarong or robe (female).
If it is a single session for men I will be in the female role. The reason for the scarce clothing is to remove the barriers and ‘mask’ we put up to others, so that we can allow ourselves to be who we really are (our authentic self), not what we wear, do for a living or own.
N.B If the thought of this terrifies you, comfortable clothing is fine.
The studio is candle lit, which hides a multitude of sins so everyone looks good, with lovely music and aromatherapy burners.
Session One is both educational and experiential as a flowing sequence of “keys” that will keep you loving and living “in the moment” i.e. breathing, relaxation, eye contact, communication, moving energy through the body, Yab Yum.
As you will see from the session details the benefits of these practices are felt on many levels and as you see from the testimonials the experience is loving, nurturing and centering. Session Two is the Tantric massage. Once again we will have a chat going over what you learned in the first session, then it’s time to release and surrender to the experience.
How sexual are the sessions?
There are many tantrikas or dakinis (skydancers) who become very intimate in their teachings, while I have no issue with that, I personally do not believe it is necessary. Tantra consists of two main components: using sexual energy to harmonize relationships and to enhance sexual experience.
I’m more than happy to teach advanced sexual practices to couples wanting to explore their sexuality through tantra if they both feel open, comfortable and natural. However, I do not physically teach advanced sexual techniques to men.
Single sessions do involve touch of the Lingam (penis) or Yoni (vagina) but it is to bring consciousness or awareness to the genitals as well as understanding how to move sexual energy through the body, not for sexual relief.
What happens if I get an erection during the session?
Erections are welcome. It is not a problem or something to be embarrassed about, I teach you very simple techniques that help remove and spread that energy, which is pure life force, through your body. In saying that don’t be concerned if you don’t get an erection, most clients are amazed that they didn’t feel “erect” in a sensuous setting.
I’m quite spiritual but my partner isn’t, should I still learn Tantra even if she isn’t interested?
Obviously the best case scenario is if both partners are on the same path, and I cannot advocate enough that even if your partner isn’t interested that they give it a go. However, I have seen many single clients who have been able to take what they have learned and experienced back to their relationship with positive results.
I’m not spiritual at all, have never done yoga or meditation, but would like a natural alternative for premature ejaculation or erection strength issues?
That’s great. Tantric techniques are a wonderful, 100% natural way of addressing sexual performance issues in both men and women. The sessions aren’t overly spiritual but learning a little about energy and spirituality will be an added benefit.
My wife is very hesitant in coming to a session as she is very shy/nervous/worried about her looks/intimidated about discussing or feeling sexual with another woman in the room?
Don’t worry you’re not the only one. As I have said in the preparation for sessions this is something most people haven’t experienced and it is still relatively unknown and misunderstood. But while the sessions do involve sexuality, they are not “out there”, they are private, they are professional and they are fun!!!
I have seen it all, all shapes and sizes and I’m completely sensitive to people’s fears and insecurities.
I am not a beauty queen, I’m a mother and I stay clothed during couple’s sessions. I encourage your partner to give me a call if she is not sure.
What does Namaste mean?
This Sanskrit word, Namaste, is a manner of greeting used by many Hindus, Taoists and Buddhists as a form of reverence to those we greet. Commonly written “Namaste”, it is pronounced as “Namastay”. It translates as “The divine in me recognizes and honours the divine in you” or literally, “I bow to you”. The hands are brought together in prayer position over the heart, and the head bows in greeting.
You talk about sacred and spiritual – do I have to believe in God?
No. “Sacred” doesn’t have to be about religion, and Tantra is not dogmatic; I can speak in terms of whatever you already believe. What I teach is about connection and intimacy- how we can feel truly connected to our bodies, thoughts, desires, and each other? Can we be honest with each other, throughout the session, about what we like/don’t like so we’re both having as much fun as possible? Can we accept every part of ourselves as divine, and worthy of exploring and playing with? Sexual energy IS spiritual energy-you can use it to open up every other part of you and have more creativity and passion in your life, to carry out whatever you believe your purpose to be. And if you just want to play, well, wouldn’t you rather be FULLY present, here and now, with someone who loves every aspect of who you are? That is what sacred means to me.
Do you only accept cash?
I accept either cash or credit cards. Ask me how to pay discreetly by credit card.
How do I prepare for a session?
- Eat a light meal beforehand. A heavy meal in your belly will detract from fully enjoying the session, as will being very hungry. Be sure to drink water before and after to keep you hydrated.
- Refrain from stimulants such as caffeine and refined sugar for at least 1 hour before your session.
- Good personal grooming required. A shower is provided if needed.
- Arrive promptly, but not early.
- If you think you may want to extend your session, please have your donation amount with you for the extended time.