Woman is like a fruit which will only yield its fragrance when rubbed by the hands. Take for example basil: unless it be warmed by the fingers, it emits no perfume. And do you know that unless amber is warmed and manipulated it retains its aroma within? The same with women: if you do not animate her with your frolics and kisses, with nibbling of her thighs and close embraces, you will not obtain what you desire: you will experience no pleasure when she shares your couch and she will feel no affection for you, – The Perfumed Garden, translated into English by Sir Richard Burton.
BASE OIL – it is the oil where essential oils are being inserted into; for the most erotic massage the best base oils are olive and sunflower oils….I however prefer sweeter smelling base oils such as macadamia or almond.
- MASSAGE TO REMOVE EMOTIONS: 10 ml. base oil, 3 drops of juniper tree essential oil and 2 drops of santal essential oil
- MASSAGE TO RELAX THE BODY: 25ml base oil, 5 drops of juniper tree essential oil, 7 drops santal essential oil
- MASSAGE TO OPEN UP THE SEXUAL APPETITE: Massage on chest and breasts – 10 ml base oil, 4 drops of rose essential oil, 2 drops of pelargonium essential oil
- APHRODISIAC ATMOSPHERE: In aromatherapy burning – 3 drops of bergamot essential oil, 3 drops of lavender essential oils
- AGAINST MAN’S SEXUAL ANXIETY: In aromatherapy burning: 3 drops of jasmine essential oil, 1 drop of patchouli essential oil; massage: 10 ml base oil, 7 drops of jasmine essential oil, 3 drops of patchouli essential oil
- AGAINST MAN’S SEXUAL DYSFUNCTIONS: In aromatherapy burning: 3 drops of jasmine essential oil, 2 drops of santal essential oil; massage: 10 ml base oil, 6 drops of jasmine essential oil, 5 drops of santal essential oil
- FOR INCREASING THE LIBIDO: massage: 10 ml base oil, 4 drops of neroli essential oil, 2 drops of rose essential oil
MASSAGE FOR FEET: 10 ml base oil, 2 drops of jasmine essential oil, 2 drops of bergamot essential oil;
MASSAGE FOR BODY: 25 ml base oil, 5 drops of jasmine essential oil, 4 drops of pelargonium essential oil or 25 ml base oil, 3 drops of ylang-ylang essential oil, 3 drops of rose essential oil;
- LAVENDER – it has always been associated with love and fertility. As an aphrodisiac, as oil, has the excitement of senses and of primary sexual instincts as base properties.
- BLACK PEPPER – except for its culinary properties, it gives back sexual vitality, reopens the flame of passion when used as essential oil. During Roman conquest it was used on body massages as preludes.
- JASMINE – perfumed, seductive oil, one of the best-known and appreciated aphrodisiacs. It was considered as a love plant and it was used for love spells. In India the jasmine flower symbolizes the promise of eternal love.
- JUNIPER TREE – the plant of protection, it makes negative feelings go away. It was used in different potions that aimed the excitement of a virgin during their first love night.
- NEROLI – also known as a fertility stimulus, a symbol of seduction and sexuality. Brides wore its flowers in their hair as a symbol of purity.
- ROSE – symbol of Venus. It is well known that QUEEN CLEOPATRA only made love on a bed of roses.
- SANTAL – used in sex rituals in the past. Encourages expression of emotions.
- YLANG-YLANG – a powerful aphrodisiac, it increases the libido and the sexual attraction between lovers.
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
A very popular aphrodisiac with many culinary uses. It has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who believed aniseed, had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increases your desire.
Given its phallic shape, asparagus is frequently enjoyed as an aphrodisiac food. Feed your lover boiled or steamed spears for a sensuous experience. The Vegetarian Society suggests “eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful affect”.
A symbol of fertility throughout the ages. The aroma is thought to induce passion in a female. Try serving Marzipan (almond paste) in the shapes of fruits for a special after-dinner treat.
Arugula or “rocket” seed has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D. This ingredient was added to grated orchid bulbs and parsnips and also combined with pine nuts and pistachios. Arugula greens are frequently used in salads and pasta.
Any Indian dried, powdered herb used as a sexual stimulant in Ayurvedic medicine. The herb has a very strong, garlicky flavor.
The Aztecs called the avocado tree “Ahuacuatl which translated means “testicle tree”. The ancients thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled the male’s testicles. This is a delicious fruit with a sensuous texture. Serve in slices with a small amount of Balsamic vinegar and freshly ground pepper.
The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the “Apple” they started covering their “nudity” with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.
Basil (sweet basil)
Is said to stimulate the sex drive and boost fertility. It is also said to produce a general sense of well being for body and mind.
Broccoli Rabe (And Other Mustard Greens)
The ground seeds of various plants in the brassica family were believed to increase virility. In the case of broccoli rabe it’s more likely a myth created to get people to eat this bitter vegetable.
The Aztecs referred to chocolate “nourishment of the Gods”. Chocolate contains chemicals thought to effect neurotransmitters in the brain and a related substance to caffeine called theobromine. Chocolate contains more antioxidant (cancer preventing enzymes) than does red wine. The secret for passion is to combine the two. Try a glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate for a sensuous treat or let us temp you with our recipe for Chocolate Espresso Pots de crème.
Another good reason to eat carrots–believed to be a stimulant to the male. The phallus shaped carrot has been associated with stimulation since ancient times and was used by early Middle Eastern royalty to aid seduction. High vitamins and beta-carotene. Perhaps a justification for a piece of carrot cake?
Caffeine is a well-know stimulant but remember, too much and it becomes a depressant. Serve small amounts of rich dark coffee in special little demitasse cups. Coffee stimulates both the body and the mind so partake of a little in preparation for an “all-nighter”.
Coriander (Cilantro seed)
The book of The Arabian nights tells a tale of a merchant who had been childless for 40 years and but was cured by a concoction that included coriander. That book is over 1000 years old so the history of coriander as an aphrodisiac dates back far into history. Cilantro was also known to be used as an “appetite” stimulant.
In the 1930’s fennel was found to be a source of natural plant estrogens. Use of fennel as an aphrodisiac dates back to the Egyptian times where it was used as “libido enhancement”.
An open fig is thought to emulate the female sex organs and traditionally thought of as sexual stimulant. A man breaking open a fig and eating it in front of his lover is a powerful erotic act. Serve fresh Black Mission figs in a cool bowl of water as it is done in Italy and be sure to eat with your fingers!
The ‘heat’ in garlic is said to stir sexual desires. Make sure you and your partner share it together. Garlic has been used for centuries to cure everything from the common cold to heart ailments. This is a good time for moderation. Enjoy pasta with a lightly garlicky sauce and it and lead up to something spicy in the bedroom later.
Ginger root raw, cooked or crystallized is a stimulant to the circulatory system. Perhaps a stir-fry with freshly grated ginger can stir something spicy up in the bedroom later.
Honey was said to be the “nectar of Aphrodite”. Many medicines in Egyptian times were based on honey including cures for sterility and impotence. Medieval seducers plied their partners with Mead, a fermented drink made from honey. Lovers on their “Honeymoon” drank mead and it was thought to “sweeten” the marriage.
The Chinese have used licorice for medicinal purposes since ancient times. The essence of the Glycyrrhiza glabra (licorice) plan, glycrrhizin, is 50 times sweeter than sugar. Chewing on bits of licorice root is said to enhance love and lust. It is particularly stimulating to woman.
Believed to stimulate the sexual glands and increase desire. Prepare a tenderloin roast (filet mignon) for two with a mustard and peppercorn sauce.
Nutmeg was highly prized by Chinese women as an aphrodisiac. In quantity nutmeg can produce a hallucinogenic effect. A light sprinkling of the spice in a warm pumpkin soup can help spice up your evening.
Oysters were documented as an aphrodisiac food by the Romans in the second century A.D as mentioned in a satire by Juvenal. He described the wanton ways of women after ingesting wine and eating “giant oysters”. An additional hypothesis is that the oyster resembles the “female” genitals. In reality oysters are a very nutritious and high in protein.
Zinc is a key mineral necessary to maintain male potency and pine nuts are rich in zinc. Pine nuts have been used to stimulate the libido as far back as medieval times. Serve pine nut cookies with a dark espresso for a stimulating dessert.
Rich in vitamin C and is used in the homeopathic treatment for impotence. Add a spear to a sweet Rum drink for a tasty prelude to an evening of passion.
Raspberries and Strawberries
Perfect foods for hand feeding your lover. “Both invite love and are described in erotic literature as fruit nipples” Both are high in vitamin C and make a sweet light dessert.
The Greeks and the Romans considered the rare Truffle to be an aphrodisiac. The musky scent is said to stimulate and sensitize the skin to touch.
The scent and flavor of vanilla is believed to increase lust. According to the Australian Orchid Society, “Old Totonac lore has it that Xanat, the young daughter of the Mexican fertility goddess, loved a Totonac youth. Unable to marry him due to her divine nature, she transformed herself into a plant that would provide pleasure and happiness.” Fill tall Champagne glasses to the rim and add a vanilla bean for a heady, bubbly treat.
A glass or two of wine can greatly enhance a romantic interlude. Wine relaxes and helps to stimulate our senses. Drinking wine can be an erotic experience. Let your eyes feast on the color of the liquid. Caress the glass; savor the taste on your lips. Do remember that excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. A moderate amount of wine has been said to “arouse” but much more than that amount with have the reverse affect